My sons have recently asked when they can read my novels. For years I’d say ‘when you’re older’ and re-check that copies were out of reach – but the boys are now eighteen and twenty-three. We’ve moved, and the novels are on the bookshelf these days. OK, they might not think of looking there, but they could have downloaded one for less than a bus ticket. Why do they need my permission? They seldom want it for anything else.
I don’t expect them to read my women’s fiction; I’ve got girlfriends who haven’t, it’s alright. I’m just intrigued by their hesitation. Possible reasons for it:
- It’s ew to read Mum writing about romantic stuff (likely)
- I’ve told them that they’ll see traces of themselves in the young characters (but hopefully be amused/chuffed)
- They resent the time I spent writing the damn things
I can’t rule out the last one. How do you combine the selflessness of motherhood with the selfish drive to get down that story in your head? The need to be positive for them, with the need to be in touch with your insecurities for the sake of your writing? It hasn’t been easy. Nor for many fathers either, I imagine.
It’s Mother’s Day, and I never feel I really deserve it. But the boys seem to have turned out OK – and usually bring authorial-quality chocolate.
CHERRY RADFORD 
”Tis an interesting one, particularly for your elder one in respect of novel one. No spoilers here, but rstopped me in my tracks when I read it years ago… Do let us know if/when they give you any feedback. All love x
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Yes… but I think he’s old enough now to see that mother’s love and laugh at some of the familiar dialogue! Men Dancing was originally written in second person, to the son. Yup, I’ll let you know how it goes! X
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